问题描述：
Wecanmakemistakesatanyage.Somemistakeswemakeareaboutmoneybutmostmistakesareaboutpeople.“DidJerryreallycarewhenIbrokeupwithHelen?”“WhenIgotthatgreatjobdidJimasafriendreallyfeelgoodaboutit?Ordidheenvymyluck?”“AndwasPaulfriendlyjustbecauseIhadacar?”Whenwelookbackdoubtslikethesecanmakeusfeelbad.?
Butwhenwelookbackitistoolate.?
Whydowegowrongaboutourfriendsorourenemies?Sometimeswhatpeoplesayhidestheirrealmeanings.Andifwedonotreallylistenwemissthefeelingbehindthewords.Supposesomeonetellsyou“You'realuckydog!”(你真幸运!)Ishereallyonyourside?Ifhesays“You'realuckyguy(人家伙)!”thatisbeingfriendly.But“aluckydog”thereisabitofenvyinthosewords.Whathemaybesayingisthathedoesnotthinkyoudeserveyourluck.?
“Justthinkofallthethingsyouhavetobethankfulfor”isanotherphrasethatsaysonethingmeansanother.Itcouldmeanthatthespeakeristryingtogetyoutoseeyourproblem.Butthisphrasecontainsthethoughtthatyourproblemisnotatallimportant.?
Howcanyoutelltherealmeaningbehindsomeone'swords?Onewayistotakeagoodlookatthepersontalking.Dohiswordsfitthewayhelooks?Iswhathesaysshownbythetoneofvoice?Thelookinhiseyes?Stopandthink.Theminuteyouspendthinkingabouttherealmeaningofwhatpeoplesaytoyoumaysaveyouranothermistake.?
Whenthewriterrecalls(回想)someofthethingsthathappenedbetweenhimandhisfriendshe_______.?
A.feelshappythinkinghownicehisfriendsweretohim?
B.feelshemightnothaveunderstoodhisfriends'truefeelings?
C.thinkitamistaketohavebrokenupwithhisgirlfriend?
D.issorrythathisfriendslethimdown
Whenthewritertalksaboutsomeonesaying“You'realuckydog!”heissayingthat_______.?
A.thespeakerisjustfriendly?
B.thissentencesuggeststhesameas“You'realuckyguy!”?
C.theword“dog”shouldnotbeusedtoapplytopeople?
D.sometimesthewordsshowthatthespeakerisabitenvious
Thispassagetriestotellyouhowto_______.?
A.avoid(避免)mistakesaboutmoneyandfriends?
B.getanideaoffriendlypeople?
C.avoidmistakesi
